...and I'm still not talking about spanking...(but just say the word and I will:D)

Another day to myself and another day without him...

This time there is no winter sun and Cardiff is dull. I am having a quiet day after busy-ness, travel and work and today I can appreciate the quietness of my day. I stayed in bed late and have had a relaxed day of reading a novel (Sara Paretsky)and pottering. I have also got a report written for work that has been hanging over me.

Tomorrow I will be fifty-one so I 'celebrated' my final day as a fifty-year-old by dying my hair!

Today's little pleasures/blessing countings included:
:D Bacon, egg, potato waffles and a perfect mug of tea
:D The warmth of my house
:D Getting my report done
:D Arranging a meal with a friend
:D Discovering I have enough living flowers from Valentine's Day to rearrange and greet me in the hall when I pass
:D Finding and enjoying one of my supply of my current favourite chocolate bars - Cadbury's Caramel
:D Discovering some new blogs I liked
:D The feel of the shower at the perfect temperature, angle and strength
:D The arrival of early birthday cards
:D The rest of the evening being mine and choosing how to spend it
:D Sending him an email
:D Licking the shells of salted pistachios (Well, I have admitted I'm kinky!)
:D seeing the things around my house that remind me of him
:D Feeling positive and remembering how much my life suits me
:D Missing him but knowing I'll see him soon

I have counted my blessings and imaginary cats are safe from a metaphorical kicking for another day...