For some reason the link to my website on friendpages wasn't working and I kept getting their homepage. I tried handle and what I thought was my password to no avail. I asked them to send my password to my email account and was told no such handle!

I know I've written about this before, but it obviously fascinates and excites me as an erotic idea. Most of my spanking stories are 'first time' for one or both parties. I don't have a formula, but I have ideas that excite me personally and as they tend to be fantasy fodder, it is unsurprising that they turn up in my stories. There is also usually a conversion - spanker or spankee drawn in reluctantly, but find it so exciting that you know first time won't be last! I guess there's element of wishful thinking as many of us hope to convert somebody into reciprocal role to complement our desires if we wish to live the fantasy.
I guess this the equivalent of a fantasy about sex with a virgin which will lead to unleashing of suppressed eroticism and passion and a perfection unlikely to be found in real-life first encounters.
My first time with my Cariad is intensely personal and private, and not a bit like my fiction because there was no 'punishment' element to it.