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Words of wisdom on cyber dating...

by suzeemoon @ Saturday, 16. Aug, 2008 - 13:05:48

I just think this is so brilliant it's worth regular repetition for all frustrated with cyber dating,cyber dates and cyber non-dates...

Saturday, 30 October 2004

Had an interesting chat with my ‘nilla friend Graham about the challenge of meeting appropriate men. We’d already decided that cyber dating spankers was akin to ‘other’ men. We talked about how some men would ignore everything written and write to women with whom there was no common ground and seemed particularly excited by geographical proximity. He summed it up as:
'Come round for a shag and pick up a loaf on the way - On second thoughts that's too much trouble - Just bring the bread and forget the shag!' Substitute spanking for shag and there you have it! Obviously as one of my best friends is male I’m not exactly anti-male, just a bit bemused and frustrated (emotionally!)


 
 

trying to meet potential dates...

by suzeemoon @ Saturday, 16. Aug, 2008 - 13:01:20

Naively when I was single and looking to date among spankos I and certain moaning 'it's not fair' men thought I'd be inundated - Not exactly...

Friday, 10th September 2004
There are a lot of disenchanted men out there who are finding it difficult to find women who regularly moan at BSC and I understand that non-professional parties are rather under-subscribed by women. I’m not having a moan, but just want to say that women have to make a considerable effort as well.

I have found that only wanting to be intimate with single men has been seen as discriminatory and downright picky by men married to vanilla partners. I absolutely don’t have a problem with men or women getting spanking and/or sex elsewhere – I just don’t want to be the one providing it!

Being a polite sort I have responded to over a hundred and fifty messages, most of whom don’t write back or stop writing with no explanation. The only message that went unanswered by me was from someone who chose to insult me. I have told a reasonable proportion of men that I believe we have little in common, and some men on further reflection have been polite enough to tell me “Thanks, but no, thanks”, which I appreciate. I’ve been told this sudden silence is also typical in vanilla cyber.

I have also provided lots of information to both promote myself as a writer and as a single spankee looking to meet people. I have also placed thoughtful and detailed ads in various places, so respondents should know what to expect – To paraphrase someone else’s witticism (Thanks Daihard!) I don’t want to be trotted around Merthyr or suspended from the Newport Transporter Bridge!

As I’ve said I’m not complaining, but pointing out that meeting people is a challenge for all of us.

Joys of cyber-flirting

by suzeemoon @ Saturday, 16. Aug, 2008 - 12:54:26

I've not done this for a while but did so when single a few years ago. Was recently empathising with friend about challenges of meeting men and working out matching desires. This is what I wrote about making contact - Hopefully bloggers are more able to express themselves than habitués of a spanking site...

Thursday, 19 August 2004

There’s been some discussion at British Spanking site on private messaging people in the chatroom. I don’t do chat as I’ve said elsewhere because it all seems too fast and confusing. I like to be able to think. I have found that the same issues come up in email and instant messaging though – Despite everything I’ve said about myself men contact me, tell me hardly anything and expect me to tell them stuff to turn them on. What I hate is asking for info and getting back “What do you want to know?” Aaaaaaaarrrrggggghhhhh!!!!!!!!!! How about the fact the other person is bright enough and interesting enough to try to get me interested in him? And as for men of ‘action’ rather than words – Congratulations! I hope you manage to impress despite your silence.

I've done it!

by suzeemoon @ Sunday, 10. Aug, 2008 - 23:09:43

Just made available my first collection of spanking stories! I've published with Lulu and they can be bought as a book or download
http://www.lulu.com/content/1811646
have a look at preview and let me know what you think...

Liberty

by suzeemoon @ Thursday, 07. Aug, 2008 - 23:22:01

Supermarion said:

"Fantasy is incredibly powerful and if not confused with reality ought to be harmless."

So do you qualify that absolute right to individual liberty of thought in any way?

Secondly, if exposed/outted through no fault of their own, can a persons private fantasy life ever compromise their real life profession?

This is so huge as some fantasy is illegal and abusive. If one uses fantasy to gear up to such acts then the thoughts are parent of action so to speak. On the other hand we don't choose our most powerful fantasies, so no matter how disturbing, we have the right to think what we wish in the sexual arena.

I don't think a blameless outing should compromise one professionally unless it reveals an actual hypocrisy. But it is almost bound to do so. I can't see your average teacher, vicar, social worker or nurse who have played discreetly wanting to make caselaw in an industrial tribunal. And if people know about your sexual behaviour it would ruin your professional relationship in jobs outlined.

More post-Mosley thoughts...

by suzeemoon @ Sunday, 27. Jul, 2008 - 21:25:06

I understand now he's won privacy case he's going for libel.
Something not being discussed - presumably as matter of taste - Is whether acting out fascist/Nazi fantasy would be so terrible. I think we can take it as read that fascism and Nazism are horrendous and any sympathies are beyond the pale. But fantasy is surely another issue? I don't share the fantasy, but would not condemn. I understand it would cause distaste, abhorrence and disgust to many, but then so would mere spanking for many. Fantasy is incredibly powerful and if not confused with reality ought to be harmless. We acquire our fantasies from images, ideas and experiences. I know some I read in Friday's book were horrendous and/or distasteful to me, but that does not make them a bad thing.

Susan Sontang wrote an interesting piece back in 1974 on the fascination of fascism:
http://www.history.ucsb.edu/faculty/marcuse/classes/33d/33dTexts/SontagFascinFascism75.htm

There is a general fantasy about uniforms. They suggest community, order, identity (through ranks, badges, medals, things which declare who the wearer is and what he has done: his worth is recognized), competence, legitimate authority, the legitimate exercise of violence. But uniforms are not the same thing as photographs of uniforms—which are erotic materials and photographs of SS uniforms are the units of a particularly powerful and widespread sexual fantasy. Why the SS? Because the SS was the ideal incarnation of fascism's overt assertion of the righteousness of violence, the right to have total power over others and to treat them as absolutely inferior. It was in the SS that this assertion seemed most complete, because they acted it out in a singularly brutal and efficient manner; and because they dramatized it by linking themselves to certain aesthetic standards. The SS was designed as an elite military community that would be not only supremely violent but also supremely beautiful. (One is not likely to come across a book called "SA Regalia." The SA, whom the SS replaced, were not known for being any less brutal than their successors, but they have gone down in history as beefy, squat, beerhall types; mere brownshirts.)

SS uniforms were stylish, well-cut, with a touch (but not too much) of eccentricity. Compare the rather boring and not very well cut American army uniform: jacket, shirt, tie, pants, socks, and lace-up shoes—essentially civilian clothes no matter how bedecked with medals and badges. SS uniforms were tight, heavy, stiff and included gloves to confine the hands and boots that made legs and feet feel heavy, encased, obliging their wearer to stand up straight....

...Of course, most people who are turned on by SS uniforms are not signifying approval of what the Nazis did, if indeed they have more than the sketchiest idea of what that might be. Nevertheless, there are powerful and growing currents of sexual feeling, those that generally go by the name of sadomasochism, which make playing at Nazism seem erotic. These sadomasochistic fantasies and practices are to be found among heterosexuals as well as homosexuals, although it is among male homosexuals that the eroticizing of Nazism is most visible. S-m, not swinging, is the big sexual secret of the last few years.
[5] It was Genet, in his novel Funeral Rites, who provided one of the first texts that showed the erotic allure fascism exercised on someone who was not a fascist. Another description is by Sartre, an unlikely candidate for these feelings himself, who may have heard about them from Genet. In La Mort dans l’âme (1949), the third novel in his four-part Les Chemins de la liberté, Sartre describes one of his protagonists experiencing the entry of the German army into Paris in 1940: "[Daniel] was not afraid, he yielded trustingly to those thousands of eyes, he thought 'Our conquerors!' and he was supremely happy. He looked them in the eye, he feasted on their fair hair, their sunburned faces with eyes which looked like lakes of ice, their slim bodies, their incredibly long and muscular hips. He murmured: 'How handsome they are!' . . . Something had fallen from the sky: it was the ancient law. The society of judges had collapsed, the sentence had been obliterated; those ghostly little khaki soldiers, the defenders of the rights of man, had been routed. ... An unbearable, delicious sensation spread through his body; he could hardly see properly; he repeated, gasping, 'As if it were butter—they're entering Paris as if it were butter.' He would like to have been a woman to throw them flowers."

Between sadomasochism and fascism there is a natural link. "Fascism is theater," as Genet said.[5] As is sadomasochistic sexuality: to be involved in sadomasochism is to take part in a sexual theater, a staging of sexuality. Regulars of sadomasochistic sex are expert costumers and choreographers as well as performers, in a drama that is all the more exciting because it is forbidden to ordinary people. Sadomasochism is to sex what war is to civil life: the magnificent experience. (Riefenstahl put it: "What is purely realistic, slice of life, what is average, quotidian, doesn't interest me." As the social contract seems tame in comparison with war, so fucking and sucking come to seem merely nice, and therefore unexciting. The end to which all sexual experience tends, as Bataille insisted in a lifetime of writing, is defilement, blasphemy. To be "nice," as to be civilized, means being alienated from this savage experience—which is entirely staged.

Sadomasochism, of course, does not just mean people hurting their sexual partners, which has always occurred—and generally means men beating up women. The perennial drunken Russian peasant thrashing his wife is just doing something he feels like doing (because he is unhappy, oppressed, stupefied; and because women are handy victims). But the perennial Englishman in a brothel being whipped is re-creating an experience. He is paying a whore to act out a piece of theater with him, to reenact or reevoke the past—experiences of his schooldays or nursery which now hold for him a huge reserve of sexual energy. Today it may be the Nazi past that people invoke, in the theatricalization of sexuality, because it is those images (rather than memories) from which they hope a reserve of sexual energy can be tapped. What the French call "the English vice" could, however, be said to be something of an artful affirmation of individuality; the playlet referred, after all, to the subject's own case history. The fad for Nazi regalia indicates something quite different: a response to an oppressive freedom of choice in sex (and in other matters), to an unbearable degree of individuality; the rehearsal of enslavement rather than its reenactment.

The rituals of domination and enslavement being more and more practiced, the art that is more and more devoted to rendering their themes, are perhaps only a logical extension of an affluent society's tendency to turn every part of people's lives into a taste, a choice; to invite them to regard their very lives as a (life) style. In all societies up to now, sex has mostly been an activity (something to do, without thinking about it). But once sex becomes a taste, it is perhaps already on its way to becoming a self-conscious form of theater, which is what sadomasochism is about: a form of gratification that is both violent and indirect, very mental.

Sadomasochism has always been the furthest reach of the sexual experience: when sex becomes most purely sexual, that is, severed from personhood, from relationships, from love. It should not be surprising that it has become attached to Nazi symbolism in recent years. Never before was the relation of masters and slaves so consciously aestheticized. Sade had to make up his theater of punishment and delight from scratch, improvising the decor and costumes and blasphemous rites. Now there is a master scenario available to everyone. The color is black, the material is leather, the seduction is beauty, the justification is honesty, the aim is ecstasy, the fantasy is death.

I think for some BDSM is about pushing boundaries and for others it is merely who and what they are.

More spanking on the Beeb!

by suzeemoon @ Friday, 25. Jul, 2008 - 23:10:48

I am a huge Radio 4 fan and love Eddie Mair on PM and anything else he does. having heard the stuff on the Mosley case yesterday I visited the PM blog and left a comment and the first half of it was read out by Eddie this evening. I am thrilled.
My posting said:

While I don't find Mr Mosley the most sympathetic of characters, I absolutely believe in his right to privacy and am pleased he won.

People into BDSM (myself included) come from all walks of life, and invasion of privacy makes us all vulnerable. And some of us are teachers, priests, carers, medics etc.

I love the Judge's announcement: the bondage, beating and domination that did take place was typical of S and M behaviour, but there was no public interest or other justification for the clandestine recording, for the publication of the resulting information and still photographs, or for the placing of the video extracts on the News of the World website - all of this on a massive scale.

I'm pretty sure he was twinkling when he suggested people could 'look up' BDSM!:>>

Spanking conversation over at the Beeb

by suzeemoon @ Thursday, 24. Jul, 2008 - 21:57:15

My discussion of spanking in relation to the Mosley case continues and I'm finding it fascinating.
One of the most elegant things I have ever read on the subject was courtesy of Miss Chievors:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/mbradio4/F2766779?thread=5663598&skip=80&show=20#p66398734

...Funny old thing Pain. The Giving of it. The Receiving of It. And then there’s its close cousin, Constriction, and that chirpy flirty niece, Humiliation..
None of them present themselves as immediately obvious contenders for sexual expression and lasting satisfaction.
Yet millions upon millions of consenting adults regularly bring up the blood using everything from...

The Mosley case

by suzeemoon @ Thursday, 24. Jul, 2008 - 21:44:45

I'm glad he won, but the sanctimonious stuff from the News of the Screws sticks in the craw.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/7523034.stm

I love the judge's statement:

The "bondage, beating and domination" that did take place was "typical of S&M behaviour", he said.

"But there was no public interest or other justification for the clandestine recording, for the publication of the resulting information and still photographs, or for the placing of the video extracts on the News of the World website - all of this on a massive scale.

Editor Myler came out with sanctimonious rubbish and spurious 'justification':

As the head of the richest sport in the world, with almost 125 million members, Mr Mosley had an obligation to honour the standards which its vast membership had every right to expect of him,

Taking part in depraved and brutal S&M orgies on a regular basis does not, in our opinion, constitute the fit and proper behaviour to be expected of someone in his hugely influential position.

Myler maintained that the paper

believed its reports were legitimate and lawful and, moreover, that publication was justified by the public interest in exposing Mr Mosley's serious impropriety.

What total rubbish!

Message?

by suzeemoon @ Tuesday, 22. Jul, 2008 - 14:16:16

I appeared to have a new message here, but couldn't find it! Please accept my apologies if you've sent message and not had reply.
Suzee
xx

More spanking in the media stuff

by suzeemoon @ Thursday, 17. Jul, 2008 - 19:43:18

I've started and been contributing to a discussion on spanking on the Radio 4 Messageboards:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/mbradio4/F2766779?thread=5663598&skip=0&show=20
I thought the piece written by Jenni Murray was interesting.

More BDSM/Spanking in the Media

by suzeemoon @ Sunday, 13. Jul, 2008 - 11:14:19

I heard excellent piece on spanking on Radio 4's 'Broadcasting House' and sent following email:

Enjoyed the programme as usual. I did wonder what direction you'd go with the spanking item and was rather impressed! I am amused by idea of aerobics class, but would agree with the figure. Submission and spanking stuff tends to be in top five of most female fantasy lists.

As a spankee I agree that it can do wonders for one's sexlife, but this is by no means unanimous among spankos - whether spanking is actually sexual is hotly debated among practitioners.

And those for whom it is sexual but get spanking outside their central relationship, there is often a decision to separate so there is a strict 'no sex' rule. Spanking Daddy made a point of emphasising the sexuality of spanking but I suspect most of his ladies may be 'spanking only'

I have been watching the signs and predicting the mainstreaming of spanking and BDSM for several years now. think it will be a while before it is seen as simply an aspect of our sexuality or sensuality and not a sign of mental weakness or something to be cured, however. That said, it is definitely becoming more mainstream and more discussed, but it does need to be mainstreamed by those that actually do it, which is why it was good to hear from SD!

I recently attended sexuality awareness training and while there was the expected focus of straight/gay from trainers, I brought up issue of understanding and accepting fetish behaviour and orientation. Although some people were amused and/or intrigued (and I didn't actually 'come out'!)no-one was horrified or fell off their chairs and the idea that we may work with people who may be fetishists as well be straight, gay or somewhere on the continuum was taken on board.

Personally I tried to 'cure' myself, but now accept I have what I consider to be dual sexuality. I can get my sexual buzz from good sex or from spanking! I consider that a bonus. My friends 'in the know' are amused and entertained, but other than having new source of gossip and jokes, it hasn't altered the friendships.

BDSM in the News

by suzeemoon @ Friday, 11. Jul, 2008 - 23:43:17

Got into some interesting dialogue re mainstreaning of BDSM and how common etc due to Mosley court case.
This Guardian article seemed balanced to me:
http://tiny.cc/crimeandpunishment
One of the things that came up in discussion was people discussing BDSM to discomfort of others. To me, while I wouldn't wish to deny my kink, I do not believe it appropriate to cause upset - I think it is a matter of manners. And I can see that discussing things that make people uncomfortable can be abusive as well as rude. My attitude to spanking and BDSM conversations is same as to straight sex - Should be sensitive to others and beware 'too much information'

Upstairs Downstairs Love

by suzeemoon @ Saturday, 28. Jun, 2008 - 12:56:27

Was browsing through catch up TV stuff for something to watch while having my cuppa and found this:

http://www.channel4.com/video/upstairs-downstairs-love/catchup.html
"The remarkable real-life story of barrister Arthur Munby and his servant lover Hannah Cullwick whose relationship transgressed the strict moral codes of 19th-century Britain."

it was intriguing for soical history perspective and emphasis on how the classes were practically different species in the 19th century and reminder that 'respectability' was central to defining the emerging middle classes at that time.

As an erotic masochist I was intrigued by the BDSM perspective which was covert and overt. Hannah like many modern subs and slaves relished literal boot-licking and wore a chain with pride. A reminder that institutionalised ideas (collaring)that are part of so-called 'scene' have universal significance and can be just as easily thought up by individuals as groups.

It was amusing that academic commentators wrestled with same issues as society in general - Can kinks/fetishists in power of kink find true love? Hannah and Arthur revelled in their erotic love of her filth and slavery, but obviously loved each other as well.

Modern issue of who's in charge in sub/Dom (Sub/dom?) relationship also explored.

Class is no longer such an issue but still with us in a big way. I've not thought of it as possible fetish/kink, but can see it as a possibility. Wonder if there are subs and Dom/mes who relish partners from different class? Whole 'bit of rough' and 'up-town girl' stuff are eroticisation of other, but not thought of it in fetish terms before - interesting...

Cyber dating

by suzeemoon @ Wednesday, 18. Jun, 2008 - 18:57:11

This is something I wrote a few years back.

Had an interesting chat with my male, ‘nilla friend G. about the challenge of meeting appropriate men. We’d already decided that cyber dating spankers was akin to ‘other’ men. We talked about how some men would ignore everything written and write to women with whom there was no common ground and seemed particularly excited by geographical proximity. He summed it up as:
'Come round for a shag and pick up a loaf on the way - On second thoughts that's too much trouble - Just bring the bread and forget the shag!' Substitute spanking for shag and there you have it! Obviously as one of my best friends is male I’m not exactly anti-male, just a bit bemused and frustrated (emotionally!)

G and I are both happily in relationships with partners we met in cyber!

Foreplay: vanilla or kink...

by suzeemoon @ Thursday, 05. Jun, 2008 - 22:36:18

As written elsewhere, I prefer idea of sexplay to foreplay as I think most sex is far too interesting and too much fun to play second fiddle to any particular act. That said, there is a poit that one suspects the kissing and cuddling and touching is possibly leading somewhere in particular...

As my Cariad is as focussed on this spanking thing as me, there is a tendency for it to be somewhat central to our sex life. Non-spanking sexuality is the exception rather than the norm. This week we have had two lovely afternoons - One of non-spanko vanilla sex and one that included spanking, caning and a little light-to-medium flogging.

I realised that I can tell the way my lover is thinking by his attitude to my clothing! He is always very interested in what is under my clothing, but with vanilla on his mind he is more eager to remove items. As part of the fun and pleasure of spanking is working with the layers, he is less eager to have things out of the way, when contemplating such activities.

Some into spanking (like those into the joys of other sex) like nudity. My Cariad and I love the contrast of a skirt or nightdress and knickers for variety and suspense and the pleasure of a staged approach. Being spanked or caned over clothing that is to be rearranged and/or removed is part of the fun and excitement.

My Cariad is thoughtful in all sexual activity, so while the removal of clothing when contemplating 'straight' sex can thoughtful and teasing, there is something very deliberate about the casual hand inside the knickers being removed, followed by the casual straightening of the skirt or nightie that tells me what it is that is on the erotic menu...

Writing opportunity

by suzeemoon @ Sunday, 04. May, 2008 - 22:17:40

I've just written a piece about how I met my Cariad as my entry for this call for submissions. The project sounds interesting, if any other woman fancies a go:

SHE SAID, SHE SAID: Selected Essays from Enlightened Eves to Clueless Adams
(What Women Really Talk About Behind Closed Doors)

Coming in the Fall of 2008, women around the world speak out in the controversial and eye-opening anthology,
SHE SAID, SHE SAID. Tired of volume after volume on what men absolutely have to have to be satisfied with the women in their lives, we decided it was time to flip the script. Since men selectively listen, we've selected essay prompts designed to push the envelope and help them find their way inside from the dog house. Now all they have to do is roll over, sit up and pay attention...just like Spot.

Ladies, bring it and your essay could be chosen for SHE SAID, SHE SAID.

In 2000-3000 words, respond to the essay prompt that speaks to you. What we'd especially like to see is a well
written narrative account of your experience, along with commentary on how you overcame your dilemma and
the positive lesson(s) you learned because of it. Try to refrain from male-bashing, please. We want our audience to personally connect with you and the message you're conveying. Of course, an epiphany or two would be nice, as well. Write to answer the question, "What do women really want?" Be as witty, satirical and/or humorous as you dare!

Second round of submissions accepted January 15, 2008 - May 15, 2008. Email submission(s), including a
brief bio and contact information to editors@brownreclusebooks.com. Please note: essay text must be
pasted into the body of the email, as attachments will not be opened. All (female) Writers Welcome!

http://www.brownreclusebooks.com/CallForSubmissions.html

Another clean bit from a mucky story...

by suzeemoon @ Sunday, 04. May, 2008 - 22:02:56

...and no prizes for guessing the 'inspiration'!:>>

Celia was also aware that Gareth Pritchard, (Sociology lecturer and voluntary youth worker) had his interest in Ursula triggered by her victimisation by those awful anti-English idiots but thoughts of Ursula could still reduce Celia to alternative hot flushes of shame and the cold sweat of fear that anyone should know of her appalling betrayal of a woman who had seen her only as a friend.

Ursula and William had trusted them and Gareth and Celia had actually had sex in the church hall! If it had been just the once it would be easier to dismiss as an aberration but it was more than that – Why, they’d even considered running away together although thankfully Celia was often to recall, she’d pulled them back from that brink of madness. The sex was good but that wasn’t it…

Perhaps it came back to the princess thing… It was obvious that William loved her but Gareth had had the knack of making her feel like a princess.

She would not have admitted it to anyone but the ‘rescue’ of Sally in all her finery in the Sealed Knot re-enactment had stirred something romantic and sexual in Celia. As a child she would often imagine herself as a princess on horseback and as she got older the idea of being rescued by a prince became more appealing… Of course she wasn’t jealous of the younger Sally’s looks and romantic ‘rescue’ but she could imagine it happening with her as the damsel thrown from her horse… Celia saw no connection between this repressed fantasy and her ‘falling’ for the man who was so central to ‘rescuing’ her as the distraught mother of an unhappy teenager. Celia was never very hot on insight – at least not about herself. Now the motivations of family, friends and of course her big sister – no problem! When it came to more personal insight Celia could be just a touch myopic.

Writing with no mucky bits.

by suzeemoon @ Thursday, 01. May, 2008 - 22:05:47

When I write spanking stuff it's fun to think of character types who may be drawn to such impulses. my very first spanking story was inspired by an 'Archers' character and started with a monologue rant:

People say I’m old-fashioned, and in a way they’re right, and I’m proud of it. I like things just so. A man needs to know where he stands – Ah, I know what you’re thinking – Not supposed to say that anymore – it's all this inclusive language nonsense. Oh, surprised I speak the lingo, are you? I can move with the times despite what my daughters think. I just don’t have to like it. And believe me I most certainly don’t. As I was saying I like things just so and I need to know exactly where I stand. I don’t want things to stand still. I am, after all, a successful entrepreneur. Take this European Market - I don’t particularly like this nonsense but I was quick enough to find out how to get it to work for me. Of course set-aside is madness (and the woolly liberals go on about famine and starvation!) – it’s simply a way to support idle foreign peasants but of course, we’re not supposed to say things like that, either. It’s true though. I made sure Maes Gwyn used the system to full advantage – Well, you’d be a fool not to, wouldn’t you?
Of course change is necessary but I miss old-fashioned standards. The old Tory party and the church got it right in my opinion. Nothing wrong with power and money as long as you accept responsibility as well. That’s the trouble with Pont Llaw Land – They want the profit and they want to play the country squire idyll but they don’t understand country folk - or the Welsh! It’s not in the blood. Breeding – another thing we’re not supposed to acknowledge - but like truth it will always out. These Johnny-come-lateleys don’t know the first thing about real country life. What’s really galling, though, is that the locals and bleeding hearts like my brother-in-law Sam can’t tell the difference.

More about writing...

by suzeemoon @ Wednesday, 30. Apr, 2008 - 00:07:24

As discussed with melinda, I think the trappings of historical dress easier to 'dress up'. Harder to get tone right with modern setting. I also have problems with language - I hate words like tits and dick, but can do if I change my frame of reference. So sometimes I reflect language of protagonist, even when writing third person, rather than first.

With a casual tone belying his pulsing heart and dick he asked Christine to lock the door of the outer office and she got up, wiping her tears and did so. Jonah gazed at that swaying rump. Christine looked very professional today; she was obviously trying to impress him. That tight pencil skirt ended a few discreet inches above her knee and was both business-like and sexy. She was also wearing heels – a nice change from her bloody Doc Marten’s he thought. It was amazing the footwear some of these young women wore! She’d already taken off her smart jacket so he had an unhampered view of that curvy arse as her top was tucked in showing her neat waist.
As she walked back he noticed her nicely rounded tits discreetly covered in one of those stretchy little tops she usually wore under her jacket. He suddenly realised he’d better get his act together in time with her return to his office. He refined his desk slouch by quickly clearing an edge and continuing to lean so he was half leaning and half sitting. He casually eased back so his left thigh was also on the desk with his right foot firmly on the carpet. As he thought that his raised left leg was the knee over which the delectable young Miss Miller would be bent Jonah felt another twitch in the trouser department. It was a good job he was too much of a gentleman to take advantage of the situation, he thought rather pompously as he nervously and excitedly fantasised about the secrets under Christine’s proper but sexy pinstriped skirt.
As Christine re-entered the office now less brisk than she left, Jonah found an insouciance he hadn’t known he possessed. He leaned back with folded arms and raised an eyebrow (he was proud of his ability to raise just the one but though it best not to dwell on raisings – her skirt, his dick…).
With a casualness that belied the screaming, warring feelings in his mind, heart and trousers he looked at the now stationery vision that was young Christine, unfolded his arms, gestured at his left thigh and said:
“Time for your lesson young lady. Bend over.”

I was also thinking about difference in their frames of reference and language

As the slip slowly rode up the nylon clad legs (of course stockings were impossible, he realised wistfully) he took in the delights of Christine’s shapely and rounded young thighs. He knew she was always trying to lose weight but he liked their touch of plumpness. To his delight her plumply rounded bottom seemed encase only in the sheer nylon of her pale flesh-coloured tights. He then realised she was wearing a g-string.
Once again Christine was overcome with mortification at the thought of the old scroat seeing her designer thong revealed in such humiliating circumstances.

'straight' story extract - For Melinda

by suzeemoon @ Thursday, 24. Apr, 2008 - 09:57:19

Let's just say I share some history with 'Sarah'!:>>

Despite her fascination with the spiritual Sarah was frustrated that somehow she never seemed to quite 'get it'. She's tried aura reading, astral projection, telepathy and spiritualism albeit half-heartedly. She would read the book; talk to the expert; watch the video but somehow get distracted when supposedly doing the exercises. Simple useful techniques like relaxation strategies, yoga and positive visualisation made perfect sense to Sarah but somehow she never actually did them. She was, however, quick to recommend such ideas to friends and customers. She knew she lacked what her mother called 'stickability'. Her ambitions to develop psychically languished alongside the unfinished jigsaws, tapestries and painting-by-number projects of her youth. She wouldn't even think of the bread maker, steamer, electric wok, exercise bike and decoupage kit - follies of more recent times hidden safely in the attic.