Just had little wander in SpankoLand looking for inspiration to write something 'on topic'.

I found something on how to end sessions. For some (if spanking is sexual and if appropriate to relationship) conventional sex is good ending. For others (whether sexual or not) spanking is 'main course' so cuddle, glass of wine, doze are possible options.

As said elsewhere, for my partner and me, spanking is totally sexual. This means that spanking is satisfying in itself with nothing else needed. On the other hand as it is very arousing, some other form of sexual expression often seems like a good idea! Post-spanking orgasms are pretty wonderful.

A while ago in the early days of my relationship with my Cariad I was surprised to learn that spanking could feel so complete. We used to have limited privacy and time together some times and discovered it was far easier to spank than have conventional sex in such circumstances. This added to excitement and 'pure' spanking was a wonderful buzz. I've likened it it to a kiss and cuddle - Great as starter or main course!