I've not done this for a while but did so when single a few years ago. Was recently empathising with friend about challenges of meeting men and working out matching desires. This is what I wrote about making contact - Hopefully bloggers are more able to express themselves than habitués of a spanking site...

Thursday, 19 August 2004

There’s been some discussion at British Spanking site on private messaging people in the chatroom. I don’t do chat as I’ve said elsewhere because it all seems too fast and confusing. I like to be able to think. I have found that the same issues come up in email and instant messaging though – Despite everything I’ve said about myself men contact me, tell me hardly anything and expect me to tell them stuff to turn them on. What I hate is asking for info and getting back “What do you want to know?” Aaaaaaaarrrrggggghhhhh!!!!!!!!!! How about the fact the other person is bright enough and interesting enough to try to get me interested in him? And as for men of ‘action’ rather than words – Congratulations! I hope you manage to impress despite your silence.