...is a well-spanked bottom.
My Cariad and I have been together a while, live in different cities, have various responsibilities and our time together is limited. Spanking like other aspects of sexuality tends to get subsumed by life in general and we have the spanking equivalent of the comfort of the double bed taking over from the hurlyburly of the chaise longue to misquote Mrs Campbell.
last night my Cariad and I arranged to meet for an evening out, knowing we'd be spending another night apart. I got thinking back to our early days and sent him a naughty email and (being real life) he didn't open it!
I told him of content and my thoughts and added a nostalgic twist to our evening. We always stop for a little kiss and cuddle before going our separate ways and did so as usual. Only this time I got a spanking as well.
I've written before about unslaked passion/delayed gratification.
http://suzeemoon.blog.co.uk/2005/12/04/in_praise_of_unslaked_lust~360342/
http://suzeemoon.blog.co.uk/2006/01/11/sex_is_great_but~463013/
Slaked lust, requited passion etc is wonderful, but so is the alternative when it is an added extra. Like a passionate kiss and cuddle in the car or a fumble on the way home it is exhilarating, sexy and makes you feel alive. It is also somehow very youthful and reminds me of how much fun it used to be to just kiss and cuddle and get weak-kneed.
We'd not spanked in the car for a few years and first time in his current car. Back seats can be a pain, but like the chaise longue, that's part of the charm. I realise that if we did not have regular opportunities for the comfort of the double bed, I would feel differently, but reawakening the memories of the chaise is definitely recommended!
Melinda-solo
Mmmm.... know what you mean - not specifically with reference to spanking, but the general principle!
sounds like you've been having fun - lucky you!